It is so easy to get bogged down in wedding planning, especially when you have people pulling you every which direction to do what “they” want you to do for their wedding. Don’t feel bad for not giving into that! I have had several brides this season already who’s day did not go as planned or the planning process is being taken over by someone, usually mom. You want to give everyone what they want and make everyone happy and it is very easy to forget this day is supposed to be about YOU! It’s ok to tell grandma she can only have 2 friends not 5 at the wedding and that, no, sorry girls, you can’t wear flats for the ceremony. In the same aspect, be able to give a little, you are dealing with lots of personalities and you want everyone ultimatly to have a good time and make great memories on your big day.