Wedding Organization Tips For The Perfect Day
We all have a dream wedding. The first thing is we have to identify your dream. As odd as that sounds, many brides bury their own dreams. They can tell you their mother’s dream of their perfect wedding. They can tell you what grandma wants, the dress their sister wants because she assumed she will be the maid of honor. But when you ask what they want, they are almost afraid to say.
This is your wedding. They have had theirs (and if they did not, they can worry about theirs when the time comes) but this one is yours. So let us find out what will make your heart melt and they will come around. This is part of being an adult. We will help you.
Note: The very first thing you should select (after the groom of course) is your wedding planner! She is your personal assistant and her personality must match yours even on your worst day. Make sure she is not over booked. You need her attention a lot.
Your Style and Theme
The first step in creating your dream wedding is to choose a theme. This is created by the selection of the venue (is it chic and elegant or casual and understated), the number of guests you invite, the style of the wedding gown and the choice you make for the dress for your bridesmaids.
Even the photographer you choose, the baker for the cake, and even your minister or officiant have their own style. Make sure their style matches yours.
If you are traveling for the wedding, you can save money by making local purchases. This eliminates the need for shipping. Put some effort into finding someone at your destination that can provide the perfect flowers, cake, and decor. Ask your wedding planner to screen locals for hair services, travel, and other details.
It’s your day
This is a day created to celebrate the love you have found as a couple. The wedding is about the bride and the groom. Do not get wrapped up in anyone’s drama. Set the mood and decide what is important to you. Set a budget you are happy with and do not let anyone sway you. It is with control and focus that you can have the wedding of your dreams.
You have to decide what is the most important things to you. If the budget gets tight, what would you not mind letting go of if it means having the things you want?
The first and most important professional in your group is the wedding planner. She will bring it all together and keep her eye on the details that you find it hard to manage. A wedding planner is a must for a dream wedding.
The photographer is the next most important pro. This is the person that will document the memories you will carry for the rest of your life. Select the right photographer and be very clear about what you can afford and what is important.
Of course, there is always a way. Plumfund is a way to Crowdfund your wedding and that allows the bride and groom to set up a free website and list the things they would like as a wedding gift. The couple likes being able to list things like a wedding on the beach. The guests like that it doesn’t cost them a dime and they can provide the gift that is wanted from the comfort of their own home.
So relax and allow your mind to travel to the wedding of your choice. It is okay to dream your own dreams.
Post Author: Wendy Dessler
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